Monday, July 22, 2013

When Stars Go Broke

A Cautionary Tale
 
 

The entertainment industry is a very unscrupulous place. Many stars do not make much money, as greedy managers sometimes take ridiculously high commissions. While in some cases, stars do make a lot of money, but spend too much and fail to meet their financial obligations, such as paying taxes.

When you start making money one of your first priorities should be putting aside money for taxes. You have to pay the state. That’s just how it works. Not paying is more costly than actually paying, as fines and penalties will accrue and a potential jail sentence and the type of negative publicity that hurts careers.

One has to have a business plan. How to make one’s income grow and last. One should always double check with other sources, information given to you by your business manager and accountant, as not everyone is honest.

If you buy a house, have it properly checked for defects and accurately appraised. If you invest in a business, double check all the projected financials and the business histories of those involved in the enterprise. Be careful getting into business with family and friends. Lay down ground rules to let them know business is business, professionalism is imperative and not to take any liberties or things for granted.

Do not overextend yourself counting on money you haven’t made yet to get you out of any potential trouble. Look at what you have now in the bank as what you have. Don’t bank on future earnings as anything can happen and derail it.

Many stars spend too much money, like the cash flow will always be there, when for many it will not be. Going out to clubs and buying expensive bottles of liquor and or "making it rain" via throwing money around for others to pick up, is fiscally irresponsible.


Repeatedly buying expensive clothes and jewelry, purchasing costly cars and taking lavish trips are sure ways to go broke. Spending money on luxury homes and car rentals, expensive liquor and high priced dinners is another way to lose your money. You can treat yourself, but not all the time if funds are limited. Always work with what you have, not what you hope to or think you will financially make.

The most sensible thing one can do is purchase a house or apartment (flat), even if it is a fixer upper in a modest neighborhood – hey at least it’s yours – and you can renovate and add a room or two to it (a house) as funds become available.

My late godmother’s husband, Clement Coxsonne Dodd, ran a successful record label with his wife while he was alive and even signed Bob Marley to his first record deal. They released a number of groundbreaking recordings, as Coxsonne is the man that started reggae. He knew the value of labor, having worked in sugarcane fields in America to earn and save money to start his label in Jamaica.

My parents have spoken about it over the years, stating it is a curious thing to watch what some artists spent their royalty checks on. Rather than saving or investing their money, some entertainers chose to buy flashy cars and expensive clothes that eventually go out of style, trying to live up to public opinion of what a star should be and have to their name. Then later, some wound up with little or nothing over poor financial choices. It’s a pattern that has repeated itself at many record labels and film studios around the world.

You can’t force people to make responsible financial decisions, but you can warn them. Some will listen and be better off for it, while others won’t and will meet with financial calamity and ruination.

Living In Sin Is Hot And Sexy?


Some people go broke from dating. Let me start by stating, you can’t buy love. What you are buying is a body. If someone loves you, they won’t be a financial problem. However some people, especially men, buy into the theory that love means spending money on a woman…then they go broke and she loses interest. Some of you will have nothing left, over a gold digger.

I’ve seen men do this. To maintain an image or to impress a woman, they buy her things, move her into their place and end up stuck on a treadmill of spending to please someone, who does not love them. Cohobating with someone is something sacred that should be reserved for marriage.

If your girlfriend is the mother of your children, you need to look into marrying her, if she is the one for you (pray for guidance). Some people belong together and what they have is real, but sometimes are scared to make that commitment regarding marriage.

However, if she is just your girlfriend and kids aren’t in the picture, you need to ask her to move out. You shouldn’t be living in sin with anyone, as God will not bless that. It is spiritually negative.


Some of you are living with gold diggers using you and causing you financial damage. You need to think about taking back the stuff you bought her (if new) or sell the items if no longer new, putting the financial proceeds into a reliable government backed CD (certificate of deposit) for your future and ask her to move out.

Once again, you should not be living in sin– as God is not going to bless that. It will bring problems on you. Correct that situation before it costs you more than you are willing to pay emotionally, mentally, personally and financially. I don’t write this to be judgmental, but I’ve seen so many people go through bad things from doing this that could have been avoided. Why go through that heartache and disappointment if you can avoid it.


Not to mention, while you are playing house with the wrong one, the right one for you will pass you by. The average person will not want to date someone who has someone living with them already.

Now, once you get married, if you want to buy each other cars, jewelry (within reason that doesn’t bankrupt the family) that’s different as you’ve made that commitment to each other. That’s someone you’re building a life with. However, you can set yourself up for a fall doing so when not married.

Is your girlfriend buying you gifts of equal value and spending the same kind of money on you. If not, you’re being used. Some of you are living with women costing you portions of your income and for what. Seriously, think about that. You’re being used and taken advantage of. A decent woman would be looking out for your financial future, not trying to get what she can from you. Remember that.


One day they are going to show you their true colors and you’re going to be devastated. Don’t be a sucker. Wise up before it’s too late.

Since I’ve written about the men, it’s time to discuss the women. Some women are trying to buy a man’s affection as well and it’s the same story. It’s a bad idea and not going to work. He will think he can do anything and get away with it – and in some cases spend your hard earned money on other women.

I’m not saying a person can’t buy someone a gift here and there in a relationship, but in some cases it is excessive, indicating the person is being used. Don’t be your boyfriend’s sugar mama. It’s undignified and beneath you.

To the men and women reading this column, ask yourself, if you didn’t have a dime, would that person be with you. Are they asking you for material things and money. Do they treat you better when they get these things and worse when they don’t. If someone loves you , they will be with you even if you don’t have a dime or spend a dime on them. Don’t let yourself become anyone’s meal ticket. That’s not what love or life is about. Living in sin and the price you pay isn’t worth it.

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Sunday, July 21, 2013

What Will Rihanna Do If Chris Brown Is Sentenced To Jail


Chris Brown and attorney Mark Geragos

R&B singer Chris Brown is due in court again on August 16, 2013 for sentencing on a probation violation. His probation was revoked on July 15, 2013 over a dodgy hit and run case that could land him in jail for four-years. Thus far, the district attorney's office has exhibited an unwillingness to put him in jail, declining to do so this month.

 
Chris Brown and Rihanna before he dumped her for Karrueche Tran

During next month's hearing, the judge may order Brown to redo his community service hours, in lieu of going to jail. However, as Brown has serious enemies in Hollywood out to get him over comments he made about gays and for getting into a fight with homosexual singer, Frank Ocean, pressure is being applied to the district attorney that could change the outcome of the hearing next month.



Rihanna 

The case stems from his 2009 domestic violence incident with on and off again girlfriend Rihanna, who has become so jealous and insecure over Brown leaving her for model Karrueche Tran, she can't even function on her world tour. Rihanna has been getting sky high and completely drunk, trying to black out the latest break up with Brown.



Karrueche Tran and Chris Brown

Word in the industry is Rihanna is so angry over his relationship with Tran, she wants Brown in jail. On the one hand, if he goes to jail, she won't be able to see him via following him to night clubs and begging for hotel hook-ups as she has done in the past. However, her jealousy is so out of control, she wouldn't mind if he were locked up to prevent him from having sex with Tran on a regular basis.

Rihanna's Overspending Causing Money Problems

 

Rihanna

Word is singer Rihanna is losing money left, right and center. Her "Diamonds" concert tour is not making the money it was projected to, as select dates were cancelled, people demanded refunds on tour stops where she showed up late and the bad buzz around the jaunt has resulted in lower ticket sales.

Rihanna is spending money on herself, greedy family members living lavishly and her manly house boy house girl, Melissa Forde, who is supposed to be her personal assistant, but is only there to sexually service her (on and off again boyfriend Chris Brown is too busy with model Karrueche Tran).

Rihanna is also losing money due to court cases for copyright infringement and financial fraud. Her record sales have experienced a massive decline with projects not recouping well. She also has a raging cocaine habit and demands high grade weed and booze, all eating into her funds. However, she continues to live lavishly, while funds are going down and the U.S. government is owed money in taxes.

Ex-Wife Of Miami Heat Star Dwyane Wade Lays On Sidewalk Stating She Is Homeless Because Of Him But...


What Happened To All That Money He's Given Her


Siohvaughn Wade pretending on a side walk. It's this type of unstable conduct that cost her custody of her children.

Siohvaughn Wade, the ex-wife of award wining Miami Heat star, Dwyane Wade, made a terrible spectacle of herself posing on a sidewalk stating she is homeless, due to the amount of money the basketball player has given her in alimony payments. This has gone too far. Her conduct is an insult to the real homeless people with nothing to their name.

 

Dwyane Wade and his cute kids

Wade has given his ex-wife a $1,000,000 lump sum. He has also given her $35,000 in alimony per month. Some people don't make $35,000 in one year. What she has done with the funds is anyone's guess. He now has primary custody of their two children, footing the bills for his kids. As such, she does not have to pay said bills. Therefore, what did she do with all the money he has given her over the past several years.


Dwyane Wade and desperate girlfriend Gabrielle Union

Stop embarrassing your children with this behavior that spreads on the internet like wildfire. These matters should be handled by the courts. The court of public opinion is not for everything, especially when the end result of said behaviors cause children distress and embarrassment.

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Miami Heat’s Dwyane Wade paying $25,000 a month in alimony

Thursday, 04.25.13 - Miami Heat superstar Dwyane Wade has done his best to keep the details of his divorce hush-hush, but some numbers popped up in court papers recently filed in Miami-Dade County. Wade, 31, is paying ex-wife Siohvaughn Funches-Wade a whopping $25,000 a month. That’s in addition to her living and travel expenses, estimated at $10,000 a month.

Oh, yes. There was that little $1 million lump sum payment when the divorce became final last year. And that’s just a down payment. The paperwork, filed under a variation of Wade’s name to make it harder for the public to see it, appeared in response to the ex-wife’s request to see her two boys more.

Saturday, July 20, 2013

Obama Talks About Disappointment At George Zimmerman Verdict In Trayvon Martin Murder (Video)



U.S. President Barack Obama held a press conference to discuss the controversial verdict in the George Zimmerman murder trial, regarding the neighborhood watchman, who killed an unarmed 17-year-old Trayvon Martin. The verdict shocked and offended many across the nation and around the world, freeing the child killer.

Obama stated during the press conference, "Trayvon Martin could have been me 35 years ago." Indeed. The ruling set a precedent that has endangered many in society. The President further stated, "Those sets of experiences inform how the African-American community interprets what happened one night in Florida and it’s inescapable for people to bring those experiences to bear."

The most troubling thing about the verdict is it has paved the way for anyone to stalk and kill another person deeming them suspicious. As such, the Stand Your Ground law needs to be repealed. It is being misapplied anyway. It should have applied to Martin, a victim of stalking and racial profiling, not Zimmerman the aggressor, who disobey authorities.

Kanye West Attacks Another Photographer (Video)



Kanye West has a problem. Today the rapper attacked another photographer with absolutely no justification. The incident occurred in Los Angeles outside LAX airport and was witnessed by several people and caught on tape. The video has been circulating online.


Kanye West

The paparazzo politely spoke to West, didn't even touch him and the irascible star went off on a terrible tangent, attacking the man. Paramedics were summoned and the pap taken to the hospital. West is completely in the wrong. There was no demonstrable threat to life and safety. Annoyance is not a valid legal reason to pounce on someone.

Friday, July 19, 2013

The Women Of R&B Divas L.A. Talk About Losing Their Virginity


R&B Divas L.A. (left to right: Dawn Robinson, Lil Mo, Kelly Price, Claudette Ortiz, Chante Moore and Michel'le)

This week, the women of the entertaining new reality show "R&B Divas L.A." discussed the first time they had sex with a man. The discussion took place over a birthday feast for singer Chante Moore, held at vocalist Kelly Price's house. People all over the internet are talking about the spread Price prepared and how they wish they had attended the dinner.


Moore stated she lost her virginity at age 17 to an older man in a sexual encounter she really did not want. She stated she expressed this to the man in question, but he kept insisting and went for it, which is not a cool thing to do when a woman is so clearly indicating no. It's one thing to keep asking, but quite another to help yourself.

Dinner at Kelly Price's house

Singer Lil Mo said she too lost her virginity at age 17, with the man calling her and stating she was to come by the following day to do the deed. She didn't sound too happy with what transpired, stating it was not what she expected. She expected flowers and music, but what she got was an emotionally cold and physically painful experience. Their honesty was refreshing, as that's not the message Hollywood likes to send.



Losing one's virginity is an important event in a woman's life (a man as well). A lot of women have stories regarding wishing they had waited to lose their virginity to their husband, as that's the point you know true love. Someone who commits to you should have the benefit of that.

 

However, that's not a message you will hear in the mainstream, as Hollywood is about sex, drugs and rock n' roll and as purveyors of pop culture, it is the lifestyle they push and portray to the public's detriment. Following this example is also why some women end up so emotionally damaged and devastated from bad relationships. You mean well, you're looking for love, but end up being sexually used by someone who is not on the same page. Sleeping with man after man will take it's toll as well (and vice versa).

Lil Mo

Don't let anyone ridicule you for choosing to wait until you're married to have sex. It's a personal choice. It's your body and you can do with it what you wish. Don't allow yourself to be pressured into something you are not ready for that goes against personal beliefs and goals you've set for yourself. If someone loves you, they'd respect your wishes and commit to you.

George Zimmerman’s Brother Complains About Obama Wiretapping Them (Video)


Robert Zimmerman, the brother of killer George Zimmerman, was complaining on Fox News that his family’s phones are wiretapped, "We do have concerns and always have of having our phones tapped, having our phones listened to by the administration or whomever." Oh whoopty do. Big deal. Rip out the front page. What else is new. I've been writing about the illegal wiretapping for years (FBI/NSA).

Stop whining like a girl. The rest of us have to live with the wiretaps, so do you. However, your brother unlike the rest of us deserves the wiretaps. Your brother killed an unarmed teenage boy, Trayvon Martin and your dad abused his position as a judge to pervert the course of justice regarding his wrongdoing. If you ask me, both father and son need to be investigated for violating federal law.

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The City Of Detroit Files For Bankruptcy (Video)


The economic downturn in America has claimed another victim – the City of Detroit. It has just been announced, the City of Detroit has filed, "The largest municipal bankruptcy case in U.S. history." The once prosperous city, famous for its cars, booming auto industry and Motown, has seen hard times since the financial crisis in 2008, leading to job losses and widespread urban decay. Detroit needs an intervention from Washington to save it.

An Angry Rihanna Pelted With Potato Chips At Her Concert (Video)


Rihanna’s trouble "Diamonds" tour continues to meet with trouble. During a performance Manchester, England, members of the audience began throwing potato chips (crisps) at her (hahaha). The temperamental singer music model lashed out at the audience stating, "Cut that s*** out. Were you throwing [bleep] at me? That's an epic fail."

Rihanna routinely disrespects her audience, showing up to shows late, drunk and high. Recently Rihanna was slammed for showing up hours late to a dinner concert where patrons paid $800 to see her perform while they dined. That's completely unprofessional conduct on the part of entertainer, especially at those prices.


Rihanna

She is more concerned with whom on and off again boyfriend Chris Brown is having sex with than her actual, dwindling fanbase. Her career is going up in smoke with lower CD and ticket sales, obsessing over Brown and his relationship with model Karrueche Tran, getting depressed and high to forget he’s moved on from her.

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Thursday, July 18, 2013

Rolling Stone's Current Issue With Boston Marathon Bomber On The Cover Banned In A Growing Number Of Stores (Video)


Music magazine Rolling Stone is under fire for featuring surviving Boston marathon bomber, Dzhokhar Tsarnaev, on the cover of its latest issue, in a Jim Morrison type fashion. People are angry over the decision, stating they are making him out to be a rock star by giving him a cover traditionally reserved for famous entertainers.


 
The description on the cover does not glorify terrorism, but the message of featuring him on it can send the wrong signal to some, albeit unintentionally. Tsarnaev doesn't deserve the cover. As such, major chains such as Walgreens and CVS pharmacies have banned the issue.

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