Usher's ex-wife: my son had to be brought back to
life
Tameka Foster Raymond, the ex-wife of R&B singer Usher, lost
another custody battle against him yesterday in an Atlanta, Georgia
court. After their son Usher Raymond V, aged 5, nearly drowned this
week, whilst in his father's care, Foster again demanded custody of her
children, after it was taken in a previous hearing.
Foster also stated she does not know if her son sustained brain or
heart damage from the incident. Foster released a photo to the public
on Instagram showing their shell shocked little boy, who looks
traumatized and struggling with the neurological effects of a near
drowning. Judge John J. Goger denied Foster's latest request, after sad
testimony involving Tameka crying on the witness stand.
As stated previously, the Judiciary Report doesn’t think Usher or
Tameka are the angels, but of the two parents, Usher is in the better
frame of mind. Tameka has lost sight of reality, engaging in violent
outbursts, keyed his car, threw items at him and issued death threats
against Usher and his girlfriend, which worked against her. Judges want
to see stability from parents, not behavior indicating either has
become unstable.
While on the witness stand, Foster painted Usher as an absentee
father, who is rarely around. She stated he did not visit his son at
the hospital. Foster revealed she did not see Raymond at the hospital
this week, whereas she has been there round the clock. Foster
questioned, "Where has he been at night when his son is in the
hospital." That's simple. He's been with a woman. This is a big
part of the problem enraging Foster, who has not let go of the romantic
side of their former union, which is over, as they have divorced.
Tameka Foster Raymond and Usher Raymond V
Foster states Usher does not return her calls or emails. This is due
to Foster wanting him back and not accepting the fact he has moved on
with a new girlfriend (correction, new girlfriends, as he is promiscuous,
which is not a good thing). However, Usher needs to keep Foster abreast
of the children's whereabouts, as that concerns her. He can do so
through a relative or employee, if he seeks to avoid confrontations
with Foster.
The Judiciary Report stated years ago, before the two even wed, that
they were not right for each other and should not get married and time
has proven the site right. Some may have wondered about my motives in
having written that (no, I don't have a thing for Usher, nothing wrong
with how he looks, but that wasn't it).
It was hearing things in the
industry that others also knew about. It was reading reports in
publications of Foster's ongoing unethical conduct. Even Usher's mom
started complaining about the planned union, which resulted in a
marriage that didn't even last two years, proving the site right.
Usher and Tameka's
wedding photo
For example, Foster and Raymond were incompatible from the start,
having nothing in common, an issue that has presented many couples
whose relationships derailed, with significant problems causing
break-ups. Just because someone fulfills your sexual needs, does not
mean it will translate into a good marriage, as many have found.
You should always choose someone you genuinely love and are
compatible with - Usher didn't do that. He chose Foster because of lust
and sex and the fact she did whatever he told her to...until they got
married. Then the incompatibility, fights and lack of true love while
existing on lust wreaked havoc. The honeymoon was over. He realized
he'd made a serious mistake, wanted out and she clung to him for dear
life.
Tameka kept stealing from people before the marriage, which meant
she is money hungry, but Usher ignored said warning sign the Judiciary
Report wrote about years ago, before their wedding. This greed later
showed itself in its true form after she married him, as she began
spending copious amounts of his money shopping, then tried to wipe him
out in court, after running up massive shopping bills that went well
into the six figures.
Foster ran up a bill of $100,000 at Saks Fifth Avenue alone. There
were other big bills as well that Usher was hit with due to her
spending habits. Beware of a woman always asking you for money to go
shopping. After you get married it will become exponentially worse and
could bankrupt you. It's happened to famous and non-famous men.
Usher and Tameka Foster before
they got married. The signs were there she loved the good life a little too
much...
However, the most serious issue that existed was Foster was already
married and cheating on her husband at the time to be with Usher, which
is morally wrong. God was never going to bless such a union. The
Judiciary Report has repeatedly warned people to stay away from other
people's spouses - even if they are separated.
Spiritually, you are inviting trouble and misfortune into your life,
as God sees them as married and the act adultery (it brings suffering
into both adulterers lives). Foster wasn't even separated from her
husband. She embarrassed her poor husband as the story was all over the
blogs that his wife had run off with a studly singer - Usher. That's a
cruel thing to do to one's spouse.
Foster dishonored her husband, who is the father of her children and
Usher turned around and did the exact same thing back to her, openly
cheating on her with other women, which also made its way around the
blogs. What goes around comes around. One day Usher is going to be on
the receiving end of that same misconduct as well.
The Judiciary Report is not trying to be judgmental, just warning
people to be careful of their choices in life, as the wrong ones can
bring such misery, heartbreak and suffering. And at the end of the day,
no one wants that. People want to be happy and live good lives with
meaningful relationships.
