Men Who Make The Mistake Of Publicly Bragging About The Number Of Women They've Had Sex With

Nick Cannon

After watching comedian/actor Nick Cannon mess up his marriage by going on the Howard Stern Show and running his mouth about his many sexual conquests, I feel compelled to inform the male public about how terrible of an idea such a thing is to any relationship or potential one.

Here's a tip for men out there, for the record, no woman is impressed with a man bragging about the number of women he has bedded. It's a massive turn off. Men would be surprised to learn, women who would date them, change their minds when they hear or read of them bragging about the number of chicks they've had sex with. Women don't want to hear that mess. 

At the end of the day, a woman wants to believe a man is decent, values sex and respects women. Any man boasting about the number of women he's had sex with or debauched sexual behavior such as orgies or threesomes, sends women the message he does not respect women or value sex and sees women as meat. 

Real women will pick up on that from your words and run from you like the plague. The only type of women who won't care about you bragging about your sexual conquests are prostitutes who want your money or if you are famous groupies who want your fame - neither of which are loyal or girlfriend/marriage material.  

I don’t know why men get on social networking and or do interviews bragging about their sexual conquests, as it pertains to people other than their spouse. When you brag about your spouse, people think that's decent. When you brag about sexing half the planet, people will think you have no morals and are a bad role model. It inevitably leads to trouble.

Men Have Hope Because The Friendzone Is Not A Permanent Situation Or Status

You're in the friend zone

The internet refers to the friendzone as a place where typically a man is romantically attracted to a woman, who only views him as a friend. Men find this frustrating and sad, especially when they have strong feelings for the woman. However, these relationships do not always remain platonic, so men have hope.

For example, in my aunt Lorna Goodison's award winning book "From Harvey River" which is about the history of our family, there is a humorous true story about how my grandparents met. My late grandmother was a beautiful woman. She had long, black curly hair, light brown eyes and an olive complexion (not to mention, big breasts, which is probably what granddad saw first LOL).

 

Wow, she's hanging her purse around his neck (LOL)

When my virginal grandmother was an of age teenager, she thought she was alone at the river running through the town her English grandfather founded and built up. She took off her dress and went swimming in the river in her underwear and bra. Custom in the town was if a male saw a woman swimming in the river alone they were not to enter. My grandpa, being a city slicker not from that town, didn't know and after she had been swimming in the river for a while, he saw her from a distance and walked up to the bank of the river (he didn't go in the river).

Then he tried to speak to her, not stating anything crude or disrespectful. And do you know what her first words were to him..."Go away!" That's not even the friendzone. That's the get-away-from-me zone (LOL). She was trying to protect her virginity and reputation.

 

People heard her complaining and the story got back to her parents, who went to him, giving him a stern talking to about it. However, shortly after they became friends, began dating, got married and brought 9 children into this world. Therefore, once again, men, don't give up. The friendzone isn't always permanent.

What It Means When A Man Doesn't Claim His Girlfriend Online

Saw this pic on Twitter...

Netiquette dictates a lot of things, such as you don't flirt with someone who is already in the relationship, via tweets on Twitter, posts on Instagram or Facebook. People get angry when others like and compliment their significant other online, which is understandable in most case. However, in some cases it is plain ludicrous and ridiculous - such as men who hide the fact they have someone and or are living in sin with someone.

Then the woman gets angry at other chicks online wrongly thinking the individual is single and trying to pursue a relationship with them. They start demanding answers as to why other women keep tweeting him. Demanding he delete certain tweets. Noting the page of the attractive women that showed him any attention and repeatedly checking their social networking pages. In some cases the hidden girlfriend (make that plural as in "girlfriends") will register online just to tell off and get back at an unsuspecting woman for simply publicly speaking to the man online.

First of all, if a man won't claim you online (especially without being forced), it's because he's embarrassed, thinks he can do better than you and or is cheating. Even if you are living in sin with him, it doesn't mean it's love. Some women finagle their way into a man's place, determined to move in trying to mark territory, but have no real place in his heart, not realizing they are living with him as on premises sex and nothing more. There out of convenience. 

At the end of the day, people need to be honest with themselves and those in their lives. Don't play games with people, because it is not how you would want to be treated in life. 

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Are Men The Source Of Women's Problems - A Funny Item Seems To Think So

For the record, I think men are fabulous, but I couldn't help but laugh when I read the following item on one of my friend's refrigerator and wanted to share it with you:

JUST A COINCIDENCE

I don't think so..

1.) MENstrual cramps

2.)MENtal breakdown

3.) MENopause

4.)MENtal Illness

Ever notice how all of women's problems start with MEN