People Are Getting Themselves Into Trouble On Social Networking (Dating)

Social networking is a great way to interact with others, using websites such as Twitter, among others, to meet new people. Some of you are not thinking clearly when you post items to people. For example, if you are a woman, famous or not, with a boyfriend or husband, you really shouldn’t be posting flirtatious items to other men online and using emojis such as the eggplant (penis), heart shaped eyes and the tongue indicating salivating (not the tongue indicating a raspberry “tongue sticking out”). 

How is your man or husband going to feel seeing that. If he calls you out on it, you better get smart and say, “Why would I like a muscular, well chiseled man who doesn’t miss leg day! Ewl, that’s gross. I love your bird chest” (you better try to keep a straight face when you say it LOL). 

If you are a man with a girlfriend or wife, why are you online liking beauty shots or half naked pictures on Instagram or retweeting or favoriting non-platonic tweets on Twitter posted by other women. That’s disrespectful to the person you are in a relationship with and in some cases an outright embarrassment.

Some of you are doing these things, then wondering why you are getting in trouble with your significant other. Some of you are acting so thirsty online then wondering why the person you are dating or are married to is angry with you. All that stuff is for single people. 

Speaking of that. Some single people lack good friends. Some of your friends are jealous and envious of your looks and will post the worst stuff in trying to make you look bad to others. How do you think it looks to others that your friend posts that you have a child or children you don’t own up to and mess around with lots of women, not indicating they are joking. Women looking on will think you are a dog and ignore you. Potential employers or companies seeking to retain you as a representative will overlook you branding you irresponsible, reckless and promiscuous. 

Some of you are seeking to date someone from the internet, yet you are posting non-descript pictures of yourself with others, which makes it look like you are not single, leading interested parties to move on to someone else. That’s sending out mixed signals.

What I found amusing recently was an informal male blogger who is always on Twitter and Instagram (not someone I follow or vice versa) who is always putting down others for their looks, when he is no looker himself, posting photos of himself with beautiful women he is trying to lead people to believe he is dating, when he is not. They are his co-workers.  

Whatever you post online, make sure it is ethical, legal and not something you will regret later. There are some things that are better left unsaid and kept private. You never know who is reading your pages, the impression it will leave or the job or relationship it could cost you.

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Soulja Boy and Teddy Riley

This week's episode of "Love And Hip Hop Hollywood" featured legendary music producer and singer, Teddy Riley, interrogating rapper Soulja Boy about dating his daughter Nia. Riley asked Nia to let him speak to Soulja Boy alone at the restaurant table, prompting her to excuse herself and go.

Riley, who became famous in the 1980s as a member of the singing R&B trio Guy, as well as producing many hits for various artists, was promiscuous to the point he fathered 10 children by different women. Prior to their first meeting at lunch, Nia informed Soulja Boy that her dad has 10 children, which left him in stitches.

Soulja Boy and Nia Riley

Riley grilled 24-year-old Soulja Boy who has dated Nia on and off for 8-years. Riley was puzzled as to why he has never met the rapper, after his daughter dating him for such a long time. Riley cut right to the point and asked Soulja Boy if he slept with his daughter on the first date. This prompted stuttering from Soulja Boy which should have indicated yes, but he managed to mumble out a no.

Riley also reproved Soulja Boy in stating, "I've seen you on You Tube with females videotaping you under the influence of drugs and alcohol." He was speaking of promiscuous Soulja Boy's sexual conquests. Riley began staring him down, as he was not amused. 

Soulja Boy and Nia Riley

The Judiciary Report has consistently maintained that people need to be careful regarding what they put on their social networking sites. There have been a number of reports from mainstream news outlets indicating potential employers are taking submitted applications and running the applicants names through social networking sites such as Twitter, Facebook and Instagram, among others, to gain an accurate picture of the individual.

To show off online, for people, many of whom you don't even know, then damage your professional and personal life as a result, is regrettable. It may seem like fun at first showing off online, but it can come back to haunt you in many ways that on the surface you can't imagine. 

"Love and Hip Hop Hollywood" cast

Potential employers, sponsors, love interests and the family members of those you are dating or want to date, check social networking. If they see reckless items online regarding drugs, alcohol, sex, you with a different lover or love interest every other week or month, hateful statements or unprovoked vicious attacks on others, it will cause them to flat-out reject you. It can get you rejected from your dream job or the person you want most. It can change the course of your life, because people will interpret this as who you are. Think about it, what else do they have to go on if they don't know you.

Therefore, clean up your social networking pages and make them look presentable. Putting too much information out there can prove detrimental, depending on the nature of what is being placed online. When people visit your social networking pages, let them see a smart, skilled, responsible person in control of their life and faculties. Let employers or sponsors see someone they would want to hire for a good job, which means money in your bank account. Let the opposite sex see someone great and decent they would want to love in a relationship.