Quantity Over Quality Never Made Anyone's Life Better
The marriage of Rasheeda and Kirk Frost from the reality show "Love And Hip Hop Atlanta" imploded due to his cheating on national television, enraging viewers in one of the most flagrant examples of adultery to hit pop culture (via a threesome)
Are you raising a home wrecker or gigolo, who will go on to destroy somebody's marriage and ruin lives in the process. Men and women need to beware of the messages they send their girls and boys about relationships and marriages.
Teach and raise your kids to be honest, decent people who respect the feelings, emotions and rights of those they date. Don't raise little cheaters, who watch negative examples in the home and go on to believe this is the way to be, to their own detriment and that of others.
Men who encourage their sons to nail every woman in sight, raise lotharios who end up hurting people and themselves. Not to mention the health consequences of random sex with random strangers, as condoms have a 36% failure rate. Men who live like lotharios often end up bitter and sad later in life, regretting the choices they made that cost them the love of their life.
I'm convinced that sex addiction is not all therapists claim. You wouldn't stick your genitals in fire, would you. So yea, one can control one's self. It's a choice. Some choose to be promiscuous and inevitably end up regretting it. At the end of the day no one wants a promiscuous partner. It is disrespectful and dishonest. That's quantity over quality.
You need to give your children better morals and principles. It will serve them well and stay with them throughout life, saving them from painful situations that can alter the course of their lives in a negative way. No parent wants to see their child hurt, but some need to realize, if you promote, condone or laugh at negative behavior, your offspring will deem it acceptable conduct.
Teach your kids to respect the institution of marriage. Teach your daughters that other people's husbands are not their meal ticket or there for the taking, under some misguided thinking that they are somehow supposed to be together. I've heard people refer to such cheating as destiny or fate.
Kirk Frost and one of his mistresses Mary Jane
Some even go as far as to claim God brought them together with someone else's spouse. God would not wreck someone else's marriage so you can steal their spouse. Not gonna happen. That is not His way. Remember the tried and true words, "What God has put together let no man pull apart." To break up someone's marriage is to bring spiritual trouble, which some of you call "bad luck", on one's self. No one is worth that.
Furthermore, if someone will cheat with you, they will cheat on you. Your genitals are not so special above everyone else's that they emit rainbows making you better than everyone else, hence someone cheating with you. Cheating is born out of temptation, not love. And there is a difference between lust and love. Anyone can experience lust with anyone else. However, anyone will not experience love with everyone else.