Chad Ochcocinco Johnson and Evelyn Lozada at their wedding
A few days ago, I saw a clip of reality star Evelyn Lozada and
Chad Ochocinco Johnson on "Basketball Wives" talking about cheating. This was
before the couple wed, in a union that was officially ended by the court this
past Wednesday, after 41-days of marriage, due to cheating and domestic
violence.
In the "Basketball Wives" clip, Lozada spoke to Johnson about
cheating, with tears in her eyes, stating she would rather know if he was
unfaithful to her and would prefer it if he used a condom. To tell a man that is
to tell him it is okay to cheat, when it is not. Adultery is not good for the
family unit and brings God's chastisement.
I think Lozada told him if he was tempted, she'd prefer to know
about it and that he uses a condom, as a way of testing to she where his head
was, but it gave him the wrong impression. We know this because one month into
their marriage, when Lozada found a receipt for a box of condoms in his car, she
became very angry, told him she is leaving him, resulting in a head butt from
Johnson.