Thursday, June 30, 2016

People Online Slamming Nick Young After Iggy Azalea Dumped Him For Impregnating His Ex-Girlfriend

Nick Young and Iggy Azalea 

Not only did basketball player Nick Young cheat on rapper girlfriend, Iggy Azalea, with an unnamed 19-year-old girl, he also knocked up his ex-girlfriend, Keonna Green, who is the mother of his 4-year-old son, Nick Jr. Young and Green are now expecting their second child. Young and Green are being slammed online over the incident. Young is being called names for cheating on Iggy and impregnating his ex-girlfriend. While his ex-girlfriend is being called a scheming, conniving gold digger, who deliberately got pregnant to destroy his engagement to Iggy. However, people online have expressed the view, they do not believe Young will marry Green.

At the end of the day Young is a grown 31-year-old man. He knows better. If you make a commitment to date or marry someone but then cheat on them, are irresponsible with your sperm, health, life and that of all your sex partners in not using protection while being unfaithful, you should expect disaster. Iggy is crushed by Young's actions. She has moved out of his house and returned to her homeland of Australia. Young has deeply hurt another human being and needs to change his ways. His conduct towards the mother of his child is dismissive as well. Young's public image is taking a hit from the scandal. 

Keonna Green and Nick Young
I don't understand why some women linger around men, who publicly dump them for others, but continue to let them use them for sex, while they parade around other chicks in public. It is highly disrespectful. It reveals a man's low opinion of any woman he does this to in his life. Young has known the mother of his child for years, but publicly denied their sexual relationship via hiding it from the public. He has been using her and others for sex. However, he went public with Iggy, moved her into his house and proposed marriage. That was an insult to all the women he has been messing with, while quietly hiding them from public view.

A man who shows he considers you second best is not someone you should pursue or trap with a pregnancy. Then the mother of his child, wanting to be his wife, despite the fact he so disrespected her publicly dating Iggy and cheating with other women, decides to deliberately get pregnant a second time, with the goal of this time chasing away Iggy, in trying to win him back, when he had long left her behind. That's not love. That's someone using another person for sex, who gets treacherous by getting pregnant without their knowledge or consent. That's setting yourself up for a world of heartbreak and public embarrassment.

Nick Young jr and Keonna Green
Some men and women don't think of the psychological impact of their behavior on their children and it is regrettable. What kind of story is that going to be to tell your child/children in the future and trust me they will find out. It is going to read mommy trapped daddy with a pregnancy, daddy still dumped mommy anyway, had sex with other women, then met a famous woman, proposed to the star, moved her into his mansion and began taking her everywhere, until she dumped him for cheating with mommy and other women. This is how people create future psychological damage for their kids before they're even born.

I'm not being judgmental, as I have no vested interest in this saga, but sometimes wonder why people don't think of their kids futures before they do certain things. Another example is the rapper Future. He knocked up 5 women, has no real role in his kids' lives, publicly denounced some of the mothers of his children, wrote nasty, degrading rap songs about them and got into high profile, low brow arguments regarding them. How are Future's kids going to feel in the future when they read about all these things. They are going to be heartbroken and retain a negative view of their father. Do better! 

Iggy Azalea's tweet about the break up
People need to be mindful of their actions, as our choices in life have consequences. Don't listen to so-called friends or people online telling you to cheat, be a heartbreaker, be disrespectful and take people for granted. It will come back to haunt you. People who live that way ruin lives, including their own. They end up spending a significant amount of time trying to apologize and fix broken relationships, concerning people they have wounded with their behavior. It's not a pretty place to be. Men and women who do such things clearly do not realize what a negative public image they have and that most people do not agree with their behavior.