Chad Ochcocinco Johnson and Evelyn Lozada at their wedding
A few days ago, I saw a clip of reality star Evelyn Lozada and Chad Ochocinco Johnson on "Basketball Wives" talking about cheating. This was before the couple wed, in a union that was officially ended by the court this past Wednesday, after 41-days of marriage, due to cheating and domestic violence.
In the "Basketball Wives" clip, Lozada spoke to Johnson about cheating, with tears in her eyes, stating she would rather know if he was unfaithful to her and would prefer it if he used a condom. To tell a man that is to tell him it is okay to cheat, when it is not. Adultery is not good for the family unit and brings God's chastisement.
I think Lozada told him if he was tempted, she'd prefer to know about it and that he uses a condom, as a way of testing to she where his head was, but it gave him the wrong impression. We know this because one month into their marriage, when Lozada found a receipt for a box of condoms in his car, she became very angry, told him she is leaving him, resulting in a head butt from Johnson.