Recently, I read an excerpt of an interview, featuring the women of the
reality show "Basketball Wives" speaking about their sexual
histories and acts they engaged in for partners. Evelyn Lozada, who has
slept with a number of famous married athletes, spoke of graphic sex acts
she's engaged in with men she did not love, such as "tossing
salad" and she wasn't talking about lettuce. But her marriage this
year disintegrated after 40-days, as husband, Chad "Ochocinco"
Johnson, has been cheating and beating on her.
Selena Gomez
Then there's 19-year-old Selena Gomez, who over a year ago, ditched her
purity ring to have sex and shack up with 18-year-old pop star Justin
Bieber, who has been cheating on her. The two quietly broke up and reunited
a number of times since.
Kim Kardashian has greatly compromised herself for a
number of men and it has ended badly each time
A number of famous Playboy Playmates, considered beautiful and sexually
liberated, have seen their relationships go up in smoke and very early, in
spite of engaging in wild sex acts for their boyfriends. The same can be
said for a number of singers and actresses.
Rihanna has compromised herself for men and women,
doing deplorable things for career favors, yet her career is firmly in the
toilet
Some women have compromised themselves doing things they did not want to
or did not want to with that person or were not ready for, in order to keep
a man, in relationships that fell apart rapidly anyway. Sex is supposed to
be about love. Not money or keeping a famous man. When you start
compromising yourself, you've lost who you are.