Tameka Foster
Tameka Foster, the ex-wife of singer Usher Raymond, was married when she met the singer, but committed adultery with him over and
over again. Raymond, known for being a womanizer who does not stay in
relationships long, was also taken in by Foster, who conned him in ways.
Foster dumped her devastated husband and married Raymond,
in an union that did not last. The two could barely stand each other and
stopped living together after one year. Raymond continued his cheating ways
throughout the marriage and Foster began having plastic surgery to try to
look like his groupies and mistresses.
Tameka Foster Glover Raymond (right), Usher Raymond and Foster's late
son Kile Glover
In looking at Raymond's career, the messages in his music
smack of promiscuity and disloyalty and tells who is he as a person. He has
a song about sleeping with every girl in the club, stating there is enough
of him to go around (ego much?). Other songs speak of sexual trysts with
strangers (can you say STDs). While a few tracks extol being unfaithful,
which is not admirable.
When I think about the amount of impressionable people
Raymond has influenced with these messages, I'm actually quite appalled. He
lives the disloyalty he sings about. Foster was deluding herself to think
he would be faithful and not sleep with one of her bridesmaids as he did.
Changing one's self with plastic surgery for such a man is in vain, because
cheating is a way of life to such a person. Keeping a man like that
faithful is a joke. They have to want to be faithful.